I married my husband when I was 24 and still virgin. He was my first love and has been! But since I found out that he has been having an affair with a former employee for Four years and they have a daughter is eight months old, I feel so betrayed by him. I'm so broken I don't know what to do! It's coming to a month that I have even failed to report to work! Please help

I married my husband when I was 24 and still virgin. He was my first love and has been! But since I found out that he has been having an affair with a former employee for Four years and they have a daughter is eight months old, I feel so betrayed by him. I'm so broken I don't know what to do! It's coming to a month that I have even failed to report to work! Please help

My spouse has been in an affair with a former employee and now they have an eight months old daughter

I've been in a relationship with this man for over 7 years and we have 2 kids together. I'm not perfect in any way and have many flows but I always try to improve. Recently he told me he's tired of being in a relationship with me because, well I'm not perfect. I don't cook and clean enough and I'm also apparently not a good mother. He said his mother is. In all of that he has insulted me and emotionally abused me by intentionally doing things that he knows will hurt me. When I talk I have a problem and when I keep quiet I have a problem too. Thing is I've done everything in my power to make this work. He says he wants it to work. But when I ask him to work on his flaws too, he suddenly acts like a Saint, with no flaws at all. I am so stressed that I've developed high blood pressure. I've been a stay at home mother for 7 years and I'm completely lost as to how I'm to move on, especially emotionally from this. Every time I think of him leaving I literally run out of breath and my pressure shoots up. He nolonger wants to even be in the same room as me. What do I do? I have nothing to my name.