I've been in a relationship with this man for over 7 years and we have 2 kids together. I'm not perfect in any way and have many flows but I always try to improve. Recently he told me he's tired of being in a relationship with me because, well I'm not perfect. I don't cook and clean enough and I'm also apparently not a good mother. He said his mother is. In all of that he has insulted me and emotionally abused me by intentionally doing things that he knows will hurt me. When I talk I have a problem and when I keep quiet I have a problem too. Thing is I've done everything in my power to make this work. He says he wants it to work. But when I ask him to work on his flaws too, he suddenly acts like a Saint, with no flaws at all. I am so stressed that I've developed high blood pressure. I've been a stay at home mother for 7 years and I'm completely lost as to how I'm to move on, especially emotionally from this. Every time I think of him leaving I literally run out of breath and my pressure shoots up. He nolonger wants to even be in the same room as me. What do I do? I have nothing to my name.
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